Where DIY ends and a Medicaid planning attorney starts
Teresa, 68, lives in Raleigh with her husband Paul, 70. Paul's Parkinson's progression points toward a Wake County skilled nursing placement in late 2026. Their joint Fidelity account holds $118,000, Paul has a $64,000 IRA at Vanguard, and they own a paid-off home in Wake Forest. Teresa asks whether she can "just spend down" with DSS forms or must hire a Medicaid planning attorney now.
DIY fits when every move is an allowed purchase or debt payment, no one received gifts in the last 60 months, income sits below state caps without a trust, and only one spouse applies with standard CSRA math. Teresa can gather bank statements, pay verified medical debt, fund an irrevocable prepaid funeral within NC limits, and file with Wake County DSS using the state checklist.
Attorney help fits when Teresa already deeded the house to a son, wired $25,000 to a daughter in 2023, needs a Medicaid-compliant annuity, must cure a penalized transfer, or cannot reconcile IRA treatment under NC DHHS MA-2230. Those steps touch title law, federal transfer rules at 42 U.S.C. § 1396p, and documents DSS will not prepare.
Start with our how to apply for Medicaid spend down guide for county steps. Read Medicaid look-back period rules before anyone signs a quitclaim deed.
Common mistake:Calling the county office "legal advice" is a common error. Eligibility workers interpret policy; they do not tell you which deed or trust structure avoids a divestment.