What care counts toward the exemption?
Medicaid manuals describe care in Activities of Daily Living and Instrumental Activities of Daily Living terms. Bathing, dressing, toileting, transferring from bed to chair, and eating support are classic ADLs. Meal preparation, housekeeping, laundry, transportation to doctors, and medication management are IADLs.
Cognitive supervision counts when documented. Marcus in San Antonio moved in with his father Ray in 2022 after Ray's vascular dementia diagnosis. Marcus disabled the stove, labeled cupboards, and slept on a cot in the living room because Ray woke confused at night. Texas HHSC accepted a neurologist's statement that Ray needed 24-hour observation and would have entered memory care by 2023 without Marcus.
Paid home health aides do not disqualify the child, but the child's own care must still be the reason the parent stayed home. If Medicaid already paid for 40 hours a week of waiver services, the caseworker may ask why an institutional level of care was not met earlier. Keep a simple daily log: date, tasks performed, appointments attended. Two sentences per day is enough if the pattern is consistent.
States differ on whether the child can work outside the home. New York local districts often accept a child who works days and sleeps at the parent's Brooklyn co-op nightly. Pennsylvania DHS has denied transfers when the child maintained a separate apartment lease even if they spent most nights on a sofa. Ask your county office before you assume part-time work is safe.